Well the results are in, as of December 1st 2009 with a total of 21 votes:
I wasn't surprised that most people went for the wingette. I was surprised that 'doesn't matter which' came in second over drummette. I'm mostly happy everyone likes wings and there were no wing haters in the electorate who voted.
Thanks to all who voted - it was fun and I'm going to look into more polls in the future.